Dating men who have never been married
While some in my circle have been waiting for these life events to occur for me, no one has ever thought anything was “wrong” with me for being a late 30’s or 40-year-old single person with no kids.They simply thought I was living my life, not settling or waiting for the right time in my life to do all of these things.Was it “better” to have someone who had lived as part of a couple before?Or, was it “better” to have someone who hadn’t been through the negative parts of marriage and divorce, someone who might not potentially be coming in with lots of baggage and chips on his shoulder?Would someone who had never been married be able to adjust to sharing his life with someone else?
She said divorced or never married doesn’t matter to her. She pointed out that one’s prior marital status is completely irrelevant to the things she deems most important. While we may have an idea of what is important to us, the reality is we that have to be flexible and open to having our preconceived notions change or we might miss out on meeting, dating, or even marrying, a really fabulous person!
Was it “better” to have someone who understood what marriage was all about and was familiar with all of the compromises, the peaks and the valleys?
Was it “better” to have someone who may likely already have children?
I had a similar conversation with a new friend last weekend.
She just turned 50, has never married, and we were talking about the dating scene.
Search for dating men who have never been married:
” Now, I recognize that is very narrow thinking, but in honesty, that was my first reaction.