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When we sit around with friends and lament that “there are no black men around,” maybe we should be saying “there are no black men around who are attracted to us.” Again, something empowering about being rejected by your own race.The number of dating sites matching white men with black women seems unnerving to me.
Maybe I was born with an extra dosage of sass but when black men say “black women aren’t supportive enough” or “don’t seem fun enough,” this only evokes a scoff and an eye roll.
We are constantly in a pattern of uplifting ourselves, boosting ourselves, complimenting ourselves and it can become exhausting.
“#Queen #Blessed #Melanin Magic.” If we’re not going to say it, who will?
Someone who appreciates you and is in awe of your beauty and looks at you as though you are a painting in the Louvre.
Of course, you could question fetishization and exotic othering, but it sometimes must be nice to feel as though you are the original black Mona Lisa.